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What's going on? Every single blog on my blogroll (nearly typed bogroll, hahaha) is updated - has there been a blogging frenzy, or is blogroll finally getting it's act together???

In other news, my new dining table is arriving tomorrow!!! I'm so excited, whoo hoo! Dave and I have to move furniture tonight...

Speaking of Dave... He's in the dog house atm, for allowing the boys to watch and M rated Batman movie one day when I was out, AND encouraging them not to tell me... The end result was, of course they told me, but they chose to do so when I had a visitor, in one4 fell swoop showing that I don't have a clue what goes on with my kids when I'm out, and that Dave doesn't respect my (or the ratings board's) opinion on what my kids are exposed to...

Then I went and made it far worse by telling Dave off in front of the kids, which had the twofold negative effect of making him totally pissed off so that now he won't even acknowledge me if I bring it up (forget about apologising to me, grrr!), and it had Erik APOLOGISING to his dad for getting him into trouble - thereby making me the bad person...

Bloody Hell! I want to chuck every dvd in the house in the bin (ok, not MY dvds, just Dave's and the boys, hahaha)... But I won't be doing that...

Instead I'm getting the boys either scooters or skateboards, LOL, because Dave has always said they can't have them because he feels they'll a) be a danger (broken bones) and b) encourage the boys to become like those skateboarding louts out in public... Hey, if he isn't going to respect my opinion on M rated dvds, he can forget about me going along with the no skateboards rule...

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