Friday, September 28, 2007

Well...

Ok, I talked to Dave last night...

He didn't say yes.

He didn't say no, either.

He listened intently to the process at which I came to agender and what they'd said, and he said it was all very interesting. He was very affectionate, LOL, holding my hand and so on... He made jokes about winning the lotto so we could get a cleaner and a cook and a gardner and a cheffeur... He didn't say yes, and he didn't say no.

This morning I reminded him he hadn't given me an answer and he said he couldn't give me an answer because he'd just woken up...

I guess we can play this game of cat and mouse for a while longer, but sooon I need to know because if he says yes, I need to order the supplement for him and I believe it takes a number of weeks to be delivered.

I have to prepare myself for what I'll do if he says no.

1 comment:

clelkaje said...

Good luck Sif. I was glad to read he was being affectionate, and his comments show he is concerned about how you as a family (and maybe you as a key provider in terms of 'family life' stuff) would cope...you are both being very open and honest with your discussions, which can only be a good thing.

Hugs babe xxx

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