Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Thoughts on Breast feeding...
During World Breastfeeding Week, there was a furor over model Gisele Bundchen calling for a global law forcing women to breastfeeding for the first 6 months of their babies lives. I don't think making breastfeeding compulsory for the first six months is any kind of solution for the abysmal breastfeeding rates around the world. Breastfeeding should be done with love, not resentment. There are so many benefits to breastfeeding but many of those benefits are negated once a woman begins resenting the process.
Barring four months in 2001 (Feb-Jun), between Erik temporary self-weaning at 19 months of age and Luey being born, I've been breastfeeding continuously for the past 11 years and 1 month. I've tandem fed (feeding two children during the same period of time) for 3 years and 8 months of that time. Consecutively, I've been breastfeeding for 14 years so far (Ari is 21 months and if he feeds for as long as his brothers, I expect I have another 2 years and 9 months to go feeding him)... So, yeah, it's been a HUGE part of my life. And yet, not.
In 11 years, public views on breastfeeding don't seem to have changed all that much. I hear a lot of people saying they can't believe there is still a public outcry over indiscreet breastfeeding in public, but let's face it - there is! It's ridiculous, of course. The photo at the top of this blog shows how ridiculous it is. The next two photos show, in my experience, how much breast can usually be seen when a baby is attached - which begs the question why there is such an outcry for women to COVER UP when breastfeeding? There's very little to see, anyway!
People argue that breasts are used for sexual pleasure and therefore they bring to mind the very acts of sex when women breastfeed in public.
Bunkum! LIPS are also extensively used for sexual pleasure. The very first act of sex almost always involves lips. People KISS in public all the time. Where are the LIP SHAWLS to hide our lips from provoking people into sexual thoughts?
Breastfeeding is not as easy as falling of a log, and certainly the many challenges of early breastfeeding that many women face contribute greatly to heartbreakingly low breastfeeding rate in Australia for babies 6 months and over. If we are to encourage breastfeeding then we need more than just lactation consultants and eye catching ads. We need PUBLIC SUPPORT, from the public, IN PUBLIC, so women don't have that obstacle to overcome as well as sleep deprivation, hormones, and nipple pain!
And just because this is my blog, I thought I'd post this picture; the cover of the Australian Breastfeeding Association book "Breastfeeding ...Naturally". See on the right hand side of the main photo, the middle picture on the left, the two children breastfeeding at once? The cute face looking at the camera is Luey aged about 18 months, and the dark haired child is Erik, aged 3.5 years. I love that photo (and the other photos I still have from that photo shoot). Precious moments!
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